The
official day of romance may be over, but if there’s romance
in your heart, every day’s a good day to display it. Don’t
keep it locked up or hidden in the shadows, and don’t put it
away for a year. Expose it to the sunshine, express it and let
it bloom.
A romantic soul like yours can easily come up with ways to
continue the courtship, for that’s what it really is. It’s
like winning your partner’s heart all over again each time
you do something special. There’s no better reward than to
elicit that look, that smile, that glow. Your efforts will be
appreciated, but it’s really no effort at all because it all
comes naturally. You don’t need a designated day; romance is
as easy as breathing.
A self-made romantic
I know there are those of you who feel that all this romance
stuff is so bubble-gum sweet it makes your teeth hurt. How
many times do you have to say it and show it? Can’t it just
be understood?
No. Love requires attention, and romance is the way to do
it. If it’s difficult for you, then you have to try twice as
hard. But the good thing is that your partner probably knows
you’re not “naturally” romantic, so you’re likely to
get twice the rewards for trying. Stumped for ways to be
romantic? Easy. Just remember that Valentine’s gifts are
suitable any day of the year. Flowers. Candy. Any shiny little
bauble will do. Never underestimate the power of small
gestures.
Pay compliments, hold hands, look deeply into each
other’s eyes and listen with sincere attention. Ask your
honey for a date even if you’ve been dating awhile. The goal
is to do something special for your match. Romance will keep
you connected, and those unexpected romantic gestures will
help you retain the intensity of your first meeting. Your
match is on Match.com.