Online Personals can work for you
I hate to admit it, but after my divorce my dating skills were
rusty. I didn't have a clue where to meet sincere, accomplished
men or how to behave once I did.
In my sheltered condition, I couldn't distinguish between an
eagle scout who wanted to bring me chicken soup and a convict
whose smiling mug was featured on the FBI's top ten list. What
to do? A friend tipped me off that quality singles were as close
as my computer. Then I scurried off to the local bookstore and
stocked up on how-to tips from the dating gurus.
Guess what? Self-help authors pack some useful advice for women
when it comes to meeting your match. Here are five lessons that
helped me make the most of our online personals service:
1. Test drive.
Remember that the point of our online personals service is to
explore your options. Search for local singles, browse around
and communicate with lots of people. Dating is a sensory
smorgasbord and a mutual job interview; enjoy the flavorful
possibilities. Remember that you're checking out your potential
mate's credentials, and there's no obligation to hire someone
today. You may be disappointed if a particular connection
doesn't pan out, but there's no need for recrimination and
regret. Just be grateful you got the heart-wise info you needed
early. Take the bumpy road in stride and drive on.
2. You're special.
Believe it. Express this confidence by taking good care of
yourself physically, mentally and emotionally. Show it in
everything from your willingness to smile at strangers to the
positive vibes . Your
match is on Match.com